Unfortunately we don't know how this started or what led to him screaming like that.

Unfortunately we don't know how this started or what led to him screaming like that. What we do know is she wouldn't leave his car even after he became belligerent and irate. Was she antagonizing him purposefully?

What do you think? The YouTube commentors seem to think all fault lies with her.
http://www.nydailynews.com/life-style/angry-uber-driver-yells-car-article-1.2710007

Comments

Dave Maez said…
I think people should used licensed cab drivers for a variety of obvious reasons.
Bodhipaksa said…
What a fucking asshole that driver is. I can't tell you the number of times that my phone has told me I've been at my destination, and I've actually been many hundreds of yards away. It's just not acceptable to drop someone off at a place that says "administration," when it should say "Emergency."
Jason Bayton said…
She was definitely purposefully antagonising him.
Bodhipaksa said…
Interesting, Jason Bayton. I just hear someone calmly and assertively requesting to be taken to their actual destination. Or is that what you mean by "purposefully antagonizing"?
Jason Bayton said…
She's clearly wound him up, grabbed her phone to start filming and then rather than leaving his property opts to record herself "calmly and assertively" speaking to him. All for the camera.
Bodhipaksa said…
And how do you know — "clearly" — what happened before she started filming? Because it sounds like you may have just made that up in order to justify your view that she's in the wrong.
Jason Bayton said…
How do you? You're pretty happy to call the driver an asshole without knowing anything.
Bodhipaksa said…
I can call the driver an asshole because of his visible behavior. He's yelling, he's rude, he's insisting that he is at the ER but pointing out that they are at administration. He is behaving like an asshole, therefore I described him as an asshole. She, on the other hand, is behaving in a calm and assertive manner. I find myself wondering if you have a problem with assertive women, since apparently you see calm assertiveness as provocative.
Bodhipaksa said…
But you didn't answer my question.
Jason Bayton said…
I don't, any more than you know what she did to get what could be an otherwise perfectly calm man to behave that way. I know generally you don't grab a camera and provoke that reaction unless you're doing it on purpose. I'd get out and log a complaint against him rather than prodding the bear more and more. The way she's behaving looks to me like it's for the camera, trying to behave as if butter wouldn't melt.
Bodhipaksa said…
"I know generally you don't grab a camera and provoke that reaction unless you're doing it on purpose."

Or perhaps she was politely and calmly insisting on being taken to her destination, and then he started yelling, and then she took out her camera to film the incident. You have no evidence that that didn't happen, but an apparent compulsion to assume it didn't.

"I'd get out and log a complaint against him rather than prodding the bear more and more."

She's on her way to the Emergency Room at the hospital. People generally don't do that unless they're in need of medical attention. He's trying to drop her off at the Administrative entrance. She's asking to be taken to the correct place, which is what she has paid him to do. Asking someone to do their job is "prodding the bear"?

So it seems you see him as being the victim in this incident. Do you think someone who yells at a customer and who insists they're at the correct destination when obviously they aren't should be doing the job of driving people around? Do you think it's appropriate to drop a person in need of medical attention at the wrong place? Do you see the driver as having any responsibility to behave professionally? Do you see him as having any responsibility for his own anger, or do you think it's generally the responsibility or other people not to do anything — even show politeness — that might spark off a rage incident? How else do you think she should have insisted he do his job, or do you think she should have just got out of the car and let him away with unprofessional behavior?
Jason Bayton said…
The spectator indicated the emergency room was the other side of the building, in the time she spent encouraging him she should've been making her way there if it were an emergency seeing he was clearly going nowhere.

I don't think either of them are in the right, but I won't accept that she's a perfect angel and he's the big bad wolf. She insisted on little other than repeating herself and sitting in his car after being told to get out, she took the video at a time it suited her, then she posted it online. There's a limit when you realise nothing is going to come of exasperating a situation and that point had clearly passed when she whipped out her phone.

Parroting the same phrase over and over knowing it does nothing is what I'd consider "prodding the bear". But then I'm trying to consider the situation as a whole, rather than the minute clip that appears poised to show him as the bad guy with no external influence. He'd mentioned she was winding him up; there's no video of that though, conveniently.

Additionally it matters not to me that she's a woman. I've watched plenty of situations like this and rarely are they ever one-sided.
Bodhipaksa said…
"The spectator indicated the emergency room was the other side of the building, in the time she spent encouraging him she should've been making her way there if it were an emergency seeing he was clearly going nowhere."

If she was paying to be taken to the other side of the building, then he wasn't doing his job.

"She insisted on little other than repeating herself and sitting in his car after being told to get out."

In other words she took the provocative action of politely requesting that he did what he'd been paid to do?

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