Personally I think this article should have been about the trend of victimhood and not about Christians as victims.

Personally I think this article should have been about the trend of victimhood and not about Christians as victims.

I've seen so-called 'victimhood' a lot over the years and noticed myself the truism of 'he who is loudest is right'. Both if these things annoy me. I don't know if there's a psychological term for waiting to be a victim, or looking for some excuse to be a victim, but that behavior is rampant in our modern American culture.
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The closest thing I could find is "revictimization", though it depends on being victimized the first time.

Personally, I don't like self made victimize, which is what the above piece reminds me off.
Jason ON said…
You make a good point, Frosch Polster - Americans do love themselves an underdog. Heck, I'm no exemption, myself.

But is that it? Is the association between mass majorities of us looking for excuses to be victims a direct relation to wanting to see the underdog win?
I don't know if this holds true for everyone or not but I was taught to be self-reliant. That if life gives you lemons you make a wrist rocket and launch them back at life.

What I've noticed over the years is that there seems less of that type of mentality in the world, U.S. at least. I was taught that an underdog was someone that busted their butts and came out ahead even though the odds were against them. I was never taught that an underdog was a victim, just a dog that hasn't had his day yet.

Maybe that's the issue, maybe people are confusing being a victim with being an underdog.

Of course there is always that possibility that the repeat victim just needs that type of attention. I know a few and even have / had a few in my family that have to have that victim attention.
Jason ON said…
That's a good point too, Doc Harvard. Maybe it is confusion and maybe people just like the attention it brings to themselves. There was a woman here on the Plus that, as soon as you disagreed with her, started playing the victim card: why are you harassing me? Why are you attacking me?

No one was attacking her, just her argument, yet she couldn't separate the two. Needless to say, all the white knights came to her defense. 

She blocked me a long time ago. But whenever this subject come up I think of her and the dozens like her I see on here every day. Oddly, this doesn't happen on Facebook nearly as much as it happens here. I wonder why that is? Because FB is full of real life friends?
James Karaganis said…
The traditional underdog was someone who started out with less but, win or lose, did their damndest anyway. An underdog was someone worthy of respect because of how they faced adversity.

Conversely, the modern underdog is someone who is considered incapable of handling their situation on their own, and is therefore in need of help. What we're talking about here are people who want desperately to be considered underdogs, not because they are in trouble, but as a tool to manipulate others.

The problem is, real underdogs don't ask for squat. They forge ahead regardless.
Jason ON it's ok, I'm making "enemies" on both sides of the fence because I can't stand fake victimize and hypocrite. I'm interested in what "you" have to say but don't play the victim and don't condemn when "you're" doing the same thing.

Just my take on it. Personally I don't understand what the big deal is if people want to believe in a divine power or not. Because someone doesn't believe like you doesn't make you a victim. People want to see real religious persecution they should live overseas in the 2nd and 3rd world country. Hell, even in some 1st world countries it's still going on.
James Karaganis I think your and my understanding of underdog are on similar wavelengths.

Of course there is the cartoon Underdog.

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