I don't make a lot of personal posts so please bear with me. #Rufus hasn't been doing well for the past week or so. I mean, he's 13 (at least), and has slowed down due to age, but the past week or two he's been acting like every movement is a Herculean effort. A few times in the past couple of weeks his rear legs have given out on him completely to where I've had to pick him up and carry him which is, in itself, telling. Rufus has always hated being carried and struggled continuously when I did so. Yesterday while petting him I noticed two golf-ball sized things up under his chin. Now, they may be benign lipomas as Rufus is covered with them (one one each thigh, one on each shoulder, one on his chest and a few smaller bumps here and there) or they may be indicative of something else. I'm no vet and aside from emergency medic battlefield training I have no medical experience whatsoever, but these new things seem to be where your or mine lymph nodes are located....
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Here on G+ a feminist actually tried to tell me it was rape if a woman said no and the man tried to seduce her.
If a woman says no, then its no. What you see as seduction is seen by others as pressure. The whole point of feminism is to get across to men how women feel about things, and its different to men. So its not so much about 'its called rape', but trying to explain that yes it could potentially be called rape due to the pressure put onto a woman thinking she has to do it or else she will be ridiculed or put into an uncomfortable position either socially or otherwise.
Women often feel more pressure to do things or be things because of mens behaviour eg men always posting pictures of near naked women make women often feel they have to wear those kinds of clothes/makeup to be 'normal' or desirable.
Whilst i am fairly assertive, and would tell the guy to get lost, some women are not so much like that, and have a hard time standing up to anyone (particularly when younger and less assertive)